Long ago, teens used to engage on something called on "Purity Pledge", this is when two couple involved in a relationship tend not to have sex until after they get married. But nowadays, the reverse is the case. I am in with those that practice and keep to "Purity Pledge" which means they will not have sex until they are adults and can handle the consequences because sex comes with responsibilities.
Sex bonds you to someone emotionally and if one of the partners is not faithful, things will definitely go wrong. So it is better to keep yourself until you are married and mature. Sex in a relationship before marriage is
always complicated but a lady recently wrote about how her "Purity Pledge" Went wrong.
She dated her husband for 12 years before they got married but the marriage ended up a disaster just after 3 months into marriage. She divorced her husband after she discovered that the husband did not have sexual chemistry.
I am going to give you some reasons why you should stop the so called "Purity Pledge" and get on the real deal before you say "I Do".
Sexual Chemistry:
Sonia Williams, Who kept to her vow not to have sex until her wedding night sent an article to www.jointtest.blogspot.com. She writes:
My ex was this perfect, handsome, rich and caring boyfriend and a husband but...You can have a good man that cares for you and buys you everything money can buy but if he cannot take you to the "Orgasm Lane" called "climax", it means everything is worthless. I would hear married ladies discuss about joy of make-up sex with their husband but I will be there with my mouth closed because I knew I had signed the wrong deal. I have read about the wonderful feeling of having orgasm but yet, this was just one of those childhood fairy tales to me because it wasn't real. Sonia did all things possible to make sure that her husband would take her down the "Orgasm Lane" but it never came to pass. I started thinking of filing for a divorce.
Sexual Identity:
I know couples that face a situation whereby one partner cover-up his/her sexual persuasion because he/she did not have sex with anyone else.
Sex:
It is a fact that Not everyone is good in bed but practice makes perfect. Not everyone had the best sex on their first but a good sex about listening and responding to your partner. But how would you know if your partner will be the one you would love to be listening to and responding to for the rest of your life if you do not try it first before marriage?
Size:
Would you not want to know if your husband is carrying a 6-inch bottle size mob stick or a tiny match stick size tooth pick? A friend once told me that a couple that had "Purity Pledge" got married and had sex on their wedding night, that was the day the husband discovered one of her boobs is nipple-less...lol...
Sex Issues:
You have every right to know if your husband has sexual problems like premature ejaculation, weak erection and others before he places the ring on it. It is better you plan and secure your future my friend.
Sex plays a major role in marriage and should be put into consideration before you tie the knot just like we consider children, religion, where you and your partner will stay and so on...Do not take chances else you will end up like me...
Do you agree with Sonia that it is better to have sex before marriage?
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